Betty Jean "BJ" Waters

Female 1928 - 2019  (90 years)


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  • Name Betty Jean "BJ" Waters 
    Birth 25 Sep 1928  Harlingen, Cameron County, Texas Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Gender Female 
    Occupation Secretary 
    Death 7 Jul 2019  Harlingen, Cameron County, Texas Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Person ID I1446  The Hennessee Family
    Last Modified 11 Dec 2019 

    Family James Alton Hennessee,   b. 19 Feb 1918, Florence, Lauderdale County, Alabama Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 17 Oct 1983, Harlingen, Cameron County, Texas Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 65 years) 
    Marriage 30 Sep 1950  La Feria, Cameron County, Texas Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Residence (Family) Harlingen, Cameron County, Texas Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. Beverly Jean Hennessee
     2. Karen Ruth Hennessee
    Family ID F554  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 30 Apr 2023 

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 25 Sep 1928 - Harlingen, Cameron County, Texas Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 30 Sep 1950 - La Feria, Cameron County, Texas Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 7 Jul 2019 - Harlingen, Cameron County, Texas Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsResidence (Family) - - Harlingen, Cameron County, Texas Link to Google Earth
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  • Notes 
    • Harlingen - B. J. was the daughter of Henrietta King Durham and Luke David Waters born on September 26, 1928 and passed away, at home, on July 7, 2019, after a lengthy illness. She married James Alton Hennessee on September 30, 1950 and they had two daughters Beverly Jean York and Karen Ruth Hennessee. She had three siblings Henrietta (Whitey) Spears, Ruth Porucznik (Gene) and Luke Waters (Mary Ann).

      She began her married life in Sonoma, California where Jim was stationed at the Hamilton Air Force as a Master Sergeant after being recalled into service during the Korean conflict. After his discharge, they returned to Harlingen.

      Her mother was born on El Sauz Ranch, part of the King Ranch. Her mother's father, George Durham, came to the area with McNelly's Rangers around 1875. She and her siblings spent many happy weekends on the ranch where her grandfather and uncles were foremen. Before television, her mother entertained the children with stories of bandit raids and riding the stagecoach to Brownsville where her mother attended school.

      B.J. worked 20 years for the railroad and next worked for the Plumbers and Pipefitters Union Local 823 for 13 years before retiring. In 1996 she volunteered at St. Albans and was then employed as a part time employee. She later advanced to Parish Administrator and held that job until her retirement in her 80's. In 1995, David Reed (now Bishop Reed) asked her to become the Assistant Altar Guild Directress and she became Directress in 1996. She also held the position of Treasurer and Altar Flower Chairman. She was honored with being Special Grandparent of the day school from 1994 - 1995 when her grandchildren were attending St. Alban's Day School. She served two terms on the School Board. She was known as "Mother Superior" by the St. Alban's congregation.

      She was preceded in death by her parents, husband, siblings Luke Waters, Jr. and Henrietta (Hank), niece, Rebecca Pemelton, brothers-in-law Claude and Collins Hennessee and Jerry Smyth. She is survived by her sister Ruth Porucznik, sister-in-law Frances Smyth, brother-in-law Whitey Spears, daughters Beverly (Jack) York and Karen Ruth Hennessee, her grandchildren, Clinton Collins York and Stacy Karen York, step grandchildren, Bradley (Iliana) York, Michael York and Jack (Veronica) York and her special great grandson, Diego James York, numerous nieces, nephews, and step grandchildren, also, her faithful companion Dolly who never left her side while she was ill. Special thanks to Kindred Hospice and Brian Smith.

      A memorial service is scheduled for 3:00 p.m. on Friday, July 12, at St. Alban's Episcopal Church, 1417 E. Austin, Harlingen, TX. Bishop David Reed will be officiating with a reception following the service.

      Buck Ashcraft Funeral Home is handling the funeral arrangements.

      In lieu of flowers, donations are suggested to the St. Elizabeth Altar Guild, Women of St. Albans or St. Albans Church or charity of your choice. [1]

  • Sources 
    1. [S14987] Betty Jean Waters Hennessee (1928-2019), Obituary, https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/betty-hennessee-obituary?pid=1.